Sober & Lit Podcast
Are you worried you might be drinking too much? If you’ve tried cutting back your drinking, but can’t imagine your life without wine? This podcast is for you.
Sober & Lit is the podcast for women in midlife who want encouragement, support, and real strategies to live their best life without alcohol. Whether you identify as a gray area drinker, a daily drinker, are exploring how to stop drinking, or are wondering how to know if you even have a drinking problem, this show offers practical tools and honest conversations. In each episode we answer real listeners’ questions about how to stop drinking and how to stay stopped. With sober stories, empowering insights, and practical tips and tactics for living sober with mindfulness, confidence, and joy. If you're ready to explore an alcohol-free lifestyle and step into your most vibrant, “lit” life you're in the right place.
This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked:
Why can’t I drink like everyone else?
Why do I drink more than I want to?
I had weight loss surgery and why am I drinking every day now?
What is a gray area drinker?
Why can’t I stop drinking once I start?
How can I drink less during stressful times (holidays, divorce, empty nest, grief)
Is it possible to enjoy life without alcohol?
How do I cut back without quitting completely?
What’s the first step to changing my drinking?
How much alcohol is too much for a woman my age?
Every episode ends with how to feel lit with practices that support your mental health, optimizes your fitness goals and enhances personal growth. If you’re sober-curious, or alcohol-free and ready for your next amazing chapter in life, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, tools, real talk, and some laughs!
Sober & Lit Podcast
5 Tips to Say No to a Drink / EP 110
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Ever freeze when someone offers you a drink?
Wonder how to stay alcohol-free and feel connected?
In this Sober & Lit episode, Ruby and Susan get real about what’s actually happening in those moments — and how to move through them with confidence instead of white-knuckling it.
Inside this conversation:
- Why saying no isn’t about willpower (it’s about wiring + people-pleasing)
- Simple ways to prepare before events so you don’t panic in the moment
- Go-to phrases that feel natural (not awkward or rehearsed)
- Why bringing your own alcohol-free drink can be a game changer
- How to honor yourself and belong — at the same time
This episode is equal parts heart, honesty, and practical tools you can use tonight.
Coach Ruby's powerful worksheet to help you feel grounded, prepared, and truly ready the next time a drink is offered.
🧡Get the worksheet here: https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/how-to-say-no-to-a-drink
Take the "Worried About Your Drinking" quiz:
https://coachingwithruby.com/quiz
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Connect with the Podcast Host:
Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching
Website: https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/
Email Ruby: ruby.williams@freedomrenegadecoaching.com
Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching
Looking for Susan's new podcast?
Drink Less With Susan Podcast: https://drinklesswithsusan.buzzsprout.com/
It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.
